About How To Be Everything
• Hardcover: 240 pages
• Published: May 2017 by HarperOne
• Source: Publisher via TLC Book Tours
Goodreads Description: What do you want to be when you grow up? It’s a familiar question we’re all asked as kids. While seemingly harmless, the question has unintended consequences. It can make you feel like you need to choose one job, one passion, one thing to be about. Guess what? You don’t.
Having a lot of different interests, projects and curiosities doesn’t make you a “jack-of-all-trades, master of none.” Your endless curiosity doesn’t mean you are broken or flaky. What you are is a multipotentialite: someone with many interests and creative pursuits. And that is actually your biggest strength.
How to Be Everything helps you channel your diverse passions and skills to work for you. Based on her popular TED talk, “Why some of us don’t have one true calling”, Emilie Wapnick flips the script on conventional career advice. Instead of suggesting that you specialize, choose a niche or accumulate 10,000 hours of practice in a single area, Wapnick provides a practical framework for building a sustainable life around ALL of your passions.
• Why your multipotentiality is your biggest strength, especially in today’s uncertain job market.
• How to make a living and structure your work if you have many skills and interests.
• How to focus on multiple projects and make progress on all of them.
• How to handle common insecurities such as the fear of not being the best, the guilt associated with losing interest in something you used to love and the challenge of explaining “what you do” to others.
Not fitting neatly into a box can be a beautiful thing. How to Be Everything teaches you how to design a life, at any age and stage of your career, that allows you to be fully you, and find the kind of work you’ll love.
About Emilie Wapnick
Emilie Wapnick is a speaker, career coach, blogger, and community leader. She is the founder and creative director at Puttylike.com, where she helps multipotentialites integrate all of their interests to create dynamic, fulfilling, and fruitful careers and lives. Unable to settle on a single path, Emilie studied music, art, film production, and law, graduating from the Law Faculty at McGill University in 2011. Emilie is a TED speaker and has been featured in Fast Company, Forbes, The Financial Times, The Huffington Post, and Lifehacker. Her TED talk, “Why Some of Us Don’t Have One True Calling,” has been viewed over 3.5 million times, and has been translated into 36 languages. She has been hired as a guest speaker and workshop facilitator at universities, high schools, and organizations across the United States and internationally.
Guys, I honestly don’t even know what to say about Emilie Wapnick’s How to Be Everything, other than if you’ve ever felt like there was something wrong with you because you simply couldn’t pick just ONE THING, you need to go read it right now.
When I picked up How to Be Everything, I hadn’t watched Wapnick’s TED Talk. I’d never heard of her, never heard of the term “multipotentialite.” I simply liked the description of the book.
I read the entire thing in one night.
As I read, I felt like Wapnick was speaking directly to me. Like she was in my head, in my heart, and in my soul. She got me. For the first time, someone was telling me it was ok – no, it was awesome – to have a million interests and passions and ideas. That just because I’m not an “expert” in one thing, that I haven’t devoted my entire life to one career or one purpose, that I struggle with defining what I want from a career – that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with me. Quite the opposite, in fact. It means I have tons of potential, and that I need to embrace my ideas.
How to Be Everything is full of affirmation for those of us who’ve struggled with boredom or the feeling of jumping around and around with no idea which way is up. First, Wapnick describes what it means to be a multipotentialite, and what our strengths are. I actually laughed out loud in this part – superpower #1 is “Idea Synthesis,” which just so happens to be the first thing my manager brings up in every single performance review.
Then, she suggests four different types of multipotentialites, including ways each type can incorporate their interests into their lives. These chapters also have exercises to help us put into action some of what we’ve read. To be honest, I typically ignore exercises like these, but Wapnick’s are both meaningful and doable, and I’ve found myself pulling the book out and working through them. (I’m an Einstein with a touch of Group Hug.)
Finally, Wapnick tells us how to avoid and work through some of the pitfalls multipotentialites face, such as staying focused and not getting discouraged. I love her idea of tracking small wins – something I do in other areas of my life, but never considered doing for my career.
This book certainly opened my eyes. For the first time in a very long time, I’m excited about the possibilities instead of feeling overwhelmed. I may not have all the answers yet, but I feel like I have a path forward. And who knows – maybe someday I’ll reach my full multipotential.
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Tuesday, May 9th: Books & Tea
Wednesday, May 10th: Wining Wife
Thursday, May 11th: WildmooBooks
Monday, May 15th: She’s All Booked
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Monday, May 22nd: Brown Dog Solutions
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Wednesday, May 24th: Dwell in Possibility
Thursday, May 25th: Becklist
Friday, May 26th: Read Till Dawn
TBD: Literary Quicksand
Huge thanks to TLC Book Tours and HarperOne for the chance to participate in this tour!